As a pastor I have seen first-hand what pornography can do to a marriage relationship and the devastation it leaves in its wake.

It seems like far too many people treat relationships of all sorts as being disposable. As soon as they hit a rough patch of any sort they decide to pull up stakes, move on, and find a new relationship. This is especially the case, I believe, when it comes to church membership.

What happens when you lose your pastoral call and you think you should change vocations? Or what happens if you graduate of seminary and after a number of years you still haven’t been able to get a call? Should you hang up your cleats? Making such decisions can be difficult and heart-wrenching.

Despite all of our modern pretensions to advancement and evolution, even though 1,500+ years have passed since Augustine’s day, our so-called evolved society still has bloodlust and regularly lathers its hands in violence as a form of entertainment.

Don’t be quick to talk about your accomplishments. Don’t think too much of yourself. In the words of Proverbs: “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips” (27:2).

Divine pruning of your congregation can be discouraging—loss of members, friends at a distance, and looking out on a smaller number of people as you peer over the pulpit. Use the opportunity, however, to reflect on your need for God’s grace in your ministry, to pray that God would motivate you to get the word out to see new people, even new converts, fill the pews.

What things should you consider when you’re considering taking a call? Some seminarians don’t think much about it and are willing to serve whoever they can get a church, but others have very specific criteria

At seminary I always look forward to May because it means graduation! I’m excited for the students who have worked hard for a number of years and finally reach the end of their goal—they are the proud owners of a shiny new masters degree!

Whether in the Christian life or in the ministry, don’t fear the cruciform life. As much as we might wince and fear the Father’s refining fire, we must pray that he would enlarge our eyes of faith, fill us with courage, and that we would find joy as we pilgrim in the way of the cross.

The first step in having a sacrificial ministry is to understand the nature of sacrifice itself. All too often use words without having a good grasp of what they mean. Look at what happened to Old Testament sacrifices, for example.